The last few weeks have been quite good to me financially. Reddit messing with the stock market and driving up the price of silver enabled me to do some selling. I was able to pay off my credit card debt and have quite a bit leftover. I was able to get a new laptop and a few indulgences. More than a few.
I’m doing a no buy in the month of April. I got into the habit of indulging my wants and whims and that needs to die. It’s how I got into this mess and I need to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
No Books
This one should be easy. Between work, the tiny human, unpacking from the kitchen renovation, and being a functional adult, I haven’t been reading as much. Most of it has been eaudiobooks or ebooks, mostly free from the library. When I got my influx of money, I set aside $100 to be spent at my local indie bookstore. I focused on visual books or parenting books (I like to tab and share relevant sections with Hubs). Between my latest haul and the library books I can barely make time to read, I’m more than set.
No Bath or Beauty
I recently shopped around for cruelty free shampoos to add to my routine so I’m using up one bottle before moving to the next one. I’m experimenting with different lotions and body washes so those need to get used up. The pandemic means I’m not socializing so why bother with makeup?
No Music
Between audiobooks and podcasts, I don’t listen to music as often as I used to. During the day, I usually opt for (free) Spotify since I can run that through the TV. None of the preorders I have (2), none are coming out this month.
No Jewelry or Accessories
I’m great with the bags I’ve got. My work bag is slowly wearing out but I got a replacement a few months ago on sale knowing this day was coming. I’ve mostly stopped wearing jewelry and scarves until the spawn is less grabby. My mask set up is working well and I’ve got disposables just in case.
No Kickstarters
This is a weakness of mine. I like supporting art and creation and have had a quite a few good finds (ride or die for this). I need to take a break and no project is going to live or die by my small contribution.
No Clothes*
This is going to be my problem area. Nothing like making a person and stress eating through a pandemic to change your relationship with your closet. I’m a big fan of pinning what I’d like to try which has been a mix of wants and needs. Entirely too many of the active wear pieces I used to use all the time don’t fit by just enough to make it a problem. Another problem is that even with the stores open, plus size is a niche market. Active wear is a niche market. I’m looking for a niche within a niche. To the internet!
I’ve ordered and returned an absurd amount of clothing in addition to trying on all of my old pieces. I still need a 2 or so active tanks or tees but that’s the only exception*. Since I’ve had such bad luck, I’m sticking with new items so they can be returned.
I don’t need more lounge wear or PJs or graphic shirts. No thrifting or buying used. If what I want sells out between April 1-31, it wasn’t meant to be.
Another reason I want to do the no buy is because most online returns take a few weeks to process the return then the refund. After all that, it has to go through the bank. All of that takes time. I want to wait for it all to come back and see where I’m at.
I’ve tried a no buy before and failed miserably. The big difference is that there’s less temptation or need with a very distracting little person and a pandemic. Hopefully, this time it will actually stick.